“It’s not you, it’s me.”
“I’ve gotta go my own way.”
“We’re not growing in this relationship.”
Have you ever heard those lines? When? Years ago, or maybe just yesterday?
You may think that you’ve given everything to your ex but sometimes, it’s not about giving everything. It’s about focusing on specific things. What?
You Have Got To Make Your ex Miss you
A lot of us think that relationships revolve around idealism: the right attitude, the great looks, the perfect body, but it’s actually about pushing the right buttons. In short, some tend to focus on being the “perfect woman”, but that doesn’t matter to us. We too, have flaws. So, you may think that men are so immature that they can’t recognize a good thing until it’s gone, or maybe…you’ve been doing all the work for him.
Instead of pushing yourself to be the perfect woman, here are 3 things to ponder, and reflect on if this could help on your relationship with your ex:
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You’re Driving Your Man Away Without Even Realizing It. “I’m always here for you,” a line that you’d say to your ex. You gave him your time and care, but you’d never realized that it actually takes something away from him.
Every man dreamed of being a hero one in their childhood, and of course they’d still want to feel like a hero as an adult. Even getting you as their girl would feel like they’re a hero, so they would for a girl, a damsel in distress that he could save. But for women, do you need heroes? Do you need a hero? Let me guess…no.
You’re strong and independent. You can fix a leaky faucet. You can drive a stick shift. You can take care of yourself. That’s why a lot of women are single. “Who needs a man when I can take care of myself?”
But if you’re in a relationship, you have a lot to offer to the man, and you’d want that the man would be willing to receive all you have to give. So if you need a hero, show them you need one.
A Man Who Doesn’t Work in a Relationship Does Not Value It. Men value things more if they’d work hard for it. So, handing a perfect woman wouldn’t have the same value as a man that would work hard to get a woman. BUT don’t overdo it. A man would ease it up once they know that they’ve already got you.
The Hero Instinct. Was your ex warm, affectionate and interested at the start of your relationship then suddenly became distant? Time spent with you is decreasing, sparkles in his eyes were gone, kisses were just quick ones. It didn’t come down to anything wrong with you. Rather, it all came down to something he called “The Hero Instinct.”
3 Ways On Getting The Heroes Instinct
- Ask guy for a help
- Take pleasure in male company
- Let him earn your respect
Devotion. Do you have a friend that has the perfect boyfriend material? The guy with the gorgeous floppy hair, quirky smile, and big heart devoted entirely to your friend.
“I’m so happy for you!”, you would probably say but deep inside, there’s a strong jealousy. Who wouldn’t? They’re too adorable. Mutually benefiting to their needs, outspoken to one another, their clinginess. Watching them makes you very jealous especially when the guy beside you is FAR from what you’re witnessing in front.
But don’t blame your man. He’s wonderful! You know he doesn’t wake up in the morning singing odes of joy for being lucky enough to have someone like you, but you wonder if this other guy does it. You can see it just in front of you.
The beam on his face whenever he sees his woman (your friend). With hope and a little bit of joke, you’ll ask your friend’s man if he has other brothers that you’d maybe meet and date.
What if your friend said to you that you really don’t need his brother. But what if she tells you that she learned it from a relationship coach on how she’d learn to “unlock” his man, would you believe it? Would you seek help from him? C’mon, you just saw how romantic and devoted they are.
“If it will help me and my guy read each other’s minds, like you two just did, why not?”
The Universal Mistake Women Do With Men. Cheer up, it’s not just you. As we said, it’s universal. It’s not you and the billions of women’s fault. You’re just guided by common wisdom: a wisdom that believes all men only fall for exceptional women (bodies, looks, intelligence, social status).
But the truth is: We fall for women because of how those women make us feel. Just as what we mentioned on top, when a man feels like a hero in a woman’s eyes, he swears his undying loyalty to her. He won’t stop.
He can count on one hand the number of women who look up to him, who really, really respect him. And he’s always going to have a place in his life for those women.
So, how do you make a man feel like a hero? Silly question? Do you have to create a disaster or a scenario where you’d need help? No. It’s way more simple than that.
Thank him. Yes, thank you. A simple thanks can go an extra mile for your relationship. It’s a way of appreciating him, and you’d be surprised, he’ll appreciate you more, and this could spark his “Hero Instincts”.
The Strangest Desire. What if I told you there is a kind of relationship “thirst” all men experience? A kind of thirst that’s impossible for him to resist. Would you like to know what he’s so thirsty for?
Wanna know why your man can’t tell you what he craves most from your relationship? He’s embarrassed to admit the truth. And believe it or not, admitting to this desire actually moves him farther away from the goal.
Your man thirsts for your admiration. He wouldn’t say that because we believe you have to earn admiration. Asking for this is like trying to become popular by announcing you are a cool person.
It’s not just what he craves for, but a way to sustain your “love”. “So, if I’d give him admiration, would everything be smooth sailing?” No. It’s not just about simple admiration. It only works if he believes he has earned your trust, admiration, and respect.
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Tracing back to our ancient roots, stories have been part of our history, communicated and passed down from generation to generation. And as a natural evolution, our mind is wired with stories.
Stories influence culture, empires, civilisations, and to the smallest unit, us individuals. It’s part of us and connects us to one another. Even on your deathbed, you’d like to be surrounded by people who became a living testimony to your life story.
The key to a man’s deepest feeling of attraction is by becoming a special part of his story. How? Reveal your needs and allow him to help you meet them. Why? Because it triggers his hero instinct.
So, with that, you’ll know that the formula really on triggering a man’s hero instinct is: Story + Need.
Now, you’ve thought that you’ve read and understood all you need to bring back the “old flame”: Hero Instincts, but no. This is just the tip of the iceberg.
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